The rate of divorce in America is at the highest point it has ever been. Trying to figure out how to save your marriage is hard because each marriage is completely different. You can look to books, classes, support groups, counselors, or even television shows for advice on how to stay together.

Divorce, the myths and reasons keep couples at risk. Surely, if one thinks for a moment, the adage that one simply “falls into” or “out of love” doesn’t quite measure up to the reasons why some relationships last and indeed thrive, while others disintegrate into a toxic place of rage and abandonment. Until those that adhere to the old myths are made aware of their inaccurate simplicity, the helplessness of having control and managing relationships will forever be unattainable. Within this new found understanding of love, couples will then be able to step out of themselves and this floundering about to a space of compassion, of serving the other, serving the relationship.